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	<title>Lesbian &#38; Gay Christians and our friends</title>
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	<description>Challenging Homophobia, Creating an Inclusive Church</description>
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		<title>LGCM Carol Service 2012</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2012 15:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To be held at St John&#8217;s Church, Waterloo at 3pm on Saturday 8th December 2012]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To be held at St John&#8217;s Church, Waterloo at 3pm on Saturday 8th December 2012</p>
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		<title>Outerspace at Greenbelt 2012</title>
		<link>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/08/outerspace-at-greenbelt-2012/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 11:17:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This year&#8217;s Greenbelt Festival will be held at the usual Cheltenham Racecourse location between 24-27 August 2012.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This year&#8217;s Greenbelt Festival will be held at the usual Cheltenham Racecourse location between 24-27 August 2012.</p>
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		<title>Christians Together at Pride 2012</title>
		<link>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/07/christians-together-at-pride-2012/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jul 2012 09:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Saturday 7th July 2012 will be the date of the London Pride March in 2012. World Pride will be held in London during the summer of 2012, just ahead of the London Olympic and Paralympic Games. Organised by InterPride, WorldPride promotes lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues on an international level through parades, festivals [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Saturday 7th July 2012</strong> will be the date of the <strong>London Pride March in 2012</strong>.</p>
<p>World Pride will be held in London during the summer of 2012, just ahead of the London Olympic and Paralympic Games.  Organised by InterPride, WorldPride promotes lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues on an international level through parades, festivals and other cultural activities.</p>
<p>London’s World Pride in 2012 is expected to attract over one million visitors. The two week festivities will take place from 23 June to 8 July 2012, with the main parade held on 7 July with a Pride service at Bloomsbury Baptist Church at 6pm.</p>
<p><strong>Please return to this page in the coming months for more information about Christians Together at Pride activities.</strong></p>
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		<title>LGCM Annual Conference 2012</title>
		<link>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/06/lgcm-annual-conference-2012/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/06/lgcm-annual-conference-2012/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jun 2012 13:48:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Next year&#8217;s Annual Conference and AGM will be held at Bloomsbury Baptist Church on Saturday 30th June with Dr Robert Beckford as the keynote speaker. There will be a cheese and wine Evening the night before from 7.30 &#8211; 9.00pm. Please watch this space for more details.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Next year&#8217;s Annual Conference and AGM will be held at Bloomsbury Baptist Church on Saturday 30th June with Dr Robert Beckford as the keynote speaker.  There will be a cheese and wine Evening the night before from 7.30 &#8211; 9.00pm.  Please watch this space for more details. </p>
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		<title>LGBT Lives &#8211; Achieving our Equality</title>
		<link>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/04/lgbt-lives-achieving-our-equality/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/04/lgbt-lives-achieving-our-equality/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 09:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the 3rd Faith &#38; Belief, Homophobia, Transphobia and Human Rights Conference. We will be looking at ways to challenge faith-based homophobia and transphobia: ensuring equal access to health and public services ending religious exemptions in employment promoting inclusive education making schools safe for LGBT young people celebrating our relationships accepting the right to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the 3rd <strong>Faith &amp; Belief, Homophobia, Transphobia and Human Rights Conference</strong>.</p>
<p>We will be looking at ways to challenge faith-based homophobia and transphobia:</p>
<ul>
<li>ensuring equal access to health and public services</li>
<li>ending religious exemptions in employment</li>
<li>promoting inclusive education</li>
<li>making schools safe for LGBT young people</li>
<li>celebrating our relationships</li>
<li>accepting the right to found a family</li>
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<p>LGCM is organising this event in association with the <strong>Cutting Edge Consortium</strong> on <strong>Saturday 21st April 2012</strong>.</p>
<p>The venue is: <strong>Conway Hall, Red Lion Square, London, WC1R 4RL</strong>.</p>
<p>For further enquirires visit: <a href="http://www.cuttingedgeconsortium.co.uk">www.cuttingedgeconsortium.co.uk</a> or email: cuttingedgeconsortium1@googlemail.com.</p>
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		<title>Marriage Equality</title>
		<link>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/01/marriage-equality/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/01/marriage-equality/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 13:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The government has announced that they will be conducting a consultation in March on how to best implement civil marriage for same-sex couples following their commitment to legalise marriage. However, there are some Tories in the Coalition Government who are revolting against this and will vote to stop it from going ahead. Now is the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The government has announced that they will be conducting a consultation in March on how to best implement civil marriage for same-sex couples following their commitment to legalise marriage.  However, there are some Tories in the Coalition Government who are revolting against this and will vote to stop it from going ahead.</p>
<p>Now is the time to write to your local mp and ask them how they intend to vote and tell them why it is important to vote in favour of same-sex marriage.</p>
<p>Points you can make:</p>
<ul>
<li>In keeping with Equality Act 2010</li>
<li>Further reduces inequality in the law</li>
<li>Reduces discrimination and hate crime towards LGBT community by enhancing acceptance of same-sex relationships</li>
<li>Promotes marriage and stable relationships which is good for society in general</li>
</ul>
<p>For more information please go to www.equallove.co.uk.</p>
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		<title>95 Churches want to register Civil Partnerships</title>
		<link>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/01/95-churches-want-to-register-civil-partnerships/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2012/01/95-churches-want-to-register-civil-partnerships/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 12:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A limited survey by the LGB&#038;T Anglican Coalition of which LGCM is a member has already revealed that almost 100 Church of England churches would want to explore registering their buildings to offer Civil Partnerships if the Church of England would allow it.   This comes as registration forms for religious buildings become available for [...]]]></description>
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<p>A limited survey by the <a href="www.lgbtac.org.uk ">LGB&#038;T Anglican Coalition</a> of which LGCM is a member has already revealed that almost 100 Church of England churches would want to explore registering their buildings to offer Civil Partnerships if the Church of England would allow it.<br />
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This comes as registration forms for religious buildings become available for the first time this month following the end of the Government ban in December.<br />
 <br />
The news that so many Anglican Churches would want to explore registration shows the disparity between the official stance of the Church of England and that of ordinary parishes.<br />
 <br />
Canon Giles Goddard, a member of the Coalition and Chair of Inclusive Church said, “The 95 churches we have identified are the tip of the iceberg.  Patience with the Church of England is wearing thin among lesbian and gay Anglicans and their friends and families.  The church needs to learn to become inclusive and welcoming to all. We hope that measures will soon be taken so that individual parishes can opt into offering blessings and legal ceremonies.”<br />
 <br />
At present any such application would be rejected by Registrars because applications require the consent of the Church’s governing body, the General Synod, and there are no plans to ask General Synod whether it would give consent or not.<br />
 <br />
The House of Bishops has begun a review of Church policy on Civil Partnerships however, under the leadership of The Bishop of Sodor and Man, The Rt Rev Robert Paterson. Alongside considering whether clergy in Civil Partnerships can be appointed as Bishops, it is also expected to update church policy in the light of recent changes in legislation.<br />
 <br />
The Revd Colin Coward, Director of Changing Attitude England and member of the Coalition, said: “Congregations which are welcoming and open to LGB&#038;T people, are impatient in their desire to model the infinite love of God for all creation and provide spiritual and pastoral care for lesbian and gay people who wish to celebrate their love and fidelity with their partner in church.”<br />
 <br />
Since Civil Partnerships began in 2005, over 47,000 have been registered, and there is growing evidence that many couples want to register their partnerships in a church or other religious context.</p>
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		<title>LGCM Carol Service 2011</title>
		<link>http://www.lgcm.org.uk/2011/12/lgcm-carol-service-2011/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 10:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><span style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;" _mce_style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;">The Longest Night</span><br />
<span style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;" _mce_style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;">LGCM CAROL SERVICE</span><br />
<span style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;" _mce_style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;">St John&#8217;s Church, Waterloo</span><br />
<span style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;" _mce_style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 250%;">3pm, Saturday 10th December</span><br />
<span style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 100%;" _mce_style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 100%;">Followed by mince pies and mulled wine.  All Welcome.</span><br />
<span style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 100%;" _mce_style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 100%;"><a style="color: #ffffff;" _mce_style="color: #ffffff;" href="http://www.stjohnswaterloo.org/" _mce_href="http://www.stjohnswaterloo.org/">More information about St John&#8217;s.</a></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Tuesday 2nd November 2010 our Chief Executive Sharon Ferguson went with her partner to Greenwich Registry Office to apply for a marriage licence. An act so un-newsworthy and commonplace that it should barely need mentioning (other than to offer congratulations to the happy couple who would be shortly announcing the date of their wedding). [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>On Tuesday 2nd November 2010 our Chief Executive Sharon Ferguson went with her partner to Greenwich Registry Office to apply for a marriage licence. An act so un-newsworthy and commonplace that it should barely need mentioning (other than to offer congratulations to the happy couple who would be shortly announcing the date of their wedding). But Sharon and her partner Franka Strietzel were refused the licence. Not because anyone in Greenwich doubted the genuineness of their relationship but simply because the law doesn’t allow them to apply for a marriage licence. As a same-gender couple they could have applied for a civil partnership but they cannot legally get married. It is this simple and clear-cut example of inequality that led Sharon and Franka a few months ago to decide to challenge the law.   After discussions with others it was agreed that they would be the first of four same-gender couples to apply for a marriage licence and thus begin a process which they feel confident will eventually cause a change in this major piece of unequal legislation. At the same time four heterosexual couples agreed to apply for civil partnerships, also currently unavailable to them, in order to further emphasise the inequalities that still exist. And so the Equal Love Campaign was born (see sidebar for more information). In the following pages Sharon explains the reasons for her and Franka’s decision and her personal belief in marriage as something she had always hoped for.</em></p>
<p><strong>How did the Equal Love Campaign come about?</p>
<p></strong>About a year ago I was invited to speak at a conference on marriage equality being organised by the Unitarian Church in Stoke Newington. This Church had taken the radical step to refuse to conduct weddings at their church until they could conduct them for all couples regardless of sexual orientation. At this conference, Peter Tatchell and Professor Robert Wintemute were also speaking. During a panel discussion the idea came up that the law should be challenged. I had already explained that I would not personally enter into a civil partnership and so I was asked if I’d be prepared to challenge the law with my partner.</p>
<p>From this, Peter, Robert and I started talking about the possibility of taking action. It is particularly pertinent that the campaign started when it did as Guy Bentham, who organised the conference, died shortly before the first application was made.</p>
<p><strong>Why is marriage equality so important to you?</p>
<p></strong>There are two main reasons: the first is a professional one. LGCM has a long history of campaigning for marriage equality and although it was decided five years ago to accept the introduction of civil partnerships, as the protection being offered was too great to risk, the desire for full equality has never gone away. Fighting for equality is what underpins all the work of LGCM and the current system of two institutions is clearly segregation.</p>
<p>Personally, I want to get married. Maybe I’m a traditionalist at heart or unconsciously seeking conventionalism, but for me, marriage combines the legal requirement of our society for recognition of my relationship alongside the spiritual affirmation. I don’t separate my life into secular and spiritual, God is integral to everything I do, consequently, when it comes to the biggest commitment of my life, I don’t want to split that celebration. </p>
<p><strong>So, does that mean you see civil partnerships as a second class system?<br />
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<p>Not in the slightest! I hope that couples who do not want to get married will continue to enter into civil partnerships and I will continue to wholeheartedly bless those commitments. My argument is about the discrimination that having a dual system that excludes on the basis of sexual orientation brings about. Civil partnerships and marriage are almost identical in the rights and benefits they bestow. It is because of this that the discrimination is highlighted. We are segregated according to the gender of the person we love. If we love someone of the same gender we are not allowed a marriage and if we love someone of the opposite gender we are not allowed a civil partnership. The only purpose for introducing a separate identical system is to discriminate —what other reason can there be?</p>
<p><strong>Why are you also campaigning for civil partnerships for straight couples?<br />
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<p>Basically for the reasons already outlined. Equality. I believe that in God’s eyes we are all equal and therefore entitled to be treated equally. The current law denies gay and lesbian couples the right to marriage but equally it denies the right for straight couples to have a civil partnership. There are many people who do not agree with marriage because of its basis in patriarchalism. For those couples, civil partnerships are an ideal way to register their commitment to each other. On the same note, there are couples who dislike the heteronormativity of marriage and so again a civil partnership would be more appropriate. The bottom line is that we should all have the choice regardless of sexual orientation.</p>
<p><strong>Stonewall didn’t support this campaign initially and still want to keep civil partnerships purely for gay and lesbian couples. What do you feel about that?</strong></p>
<p>My understanding is that Stonewall wanted to establish if their supporters wanted them to devote their resources to this campaign given the level of protection already afforded through civil partnerships. Consequently, I asked the members of LGCM to let Stonewall know if this was an important issue for them. I’m really pleased that they are now supporting the action as I feel it’s important that we all work together.</p>
<p>I appreciate that Stonewall is about fighting for equality for lesbian, gay and bisexual people and not for the rights of the heterosexual majority however, to keep civil partnerships only for gay and lesbian couples is not equality as then we would not be treated the same. Why should we have access to an extra system that straight couples don’t? Especially when some straight couples have the same or similar issues with the institution of marriage.</p>
<p><strong>How is the campaign going?</p>
<p></strong>The campaign started on 2nd November 2010 when my partner, Franka and I, applied for a marriage license and were refused on the grounds that we are both female. There are three other same gendered couples who are applying for a marriage license and there are also four different gendered couples applying for a civil partnership license. It is expected that we will all be refused as we don’t comply with the gender requirement.</p>
<p>On 21st December 2010, the fifth anniversary of the introduction of civil partnerships, there will be a conference at which we will launch our legal challenge.</p>
<p>It is likely to be a long campaign but it is an issue that I strongly feel needs fighting for.</p>
<p><strong>LGCM is not like other human rights groups in that it is concerned with equality in the religious domain. How does fighting for ’civil’ marriage fit into this?</strong></p>
<p>We have a system in the UK that confuses civil and religious marriage. A religious marriage is only legal if all the civil components have been satisfied, i.e. a license has been issued and a person authorised by the state has witnessed that acceptable vows have been made and both parties have signed the register. The license has to be supplied by the registry office and an authorised person is either a register officer or a clergy person with a licence to perform marriages.</p>
<p>In other words, we need the right to have a civil marriage in order to be able to have a religious marriage.</p>
<p>The main objection to lesbian and gay people having a marriage rather than a civil partnership came from the religious sector because for them marriage is between a man and a woman. Therefore, the right to be able to get married is clearly a religious issue as well as a human rights issue.</p>
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		<title>Popes, protests and paedophiles</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Tony Green The following article is by no means uncontroversial and I trust that those taking time to read it will no more blindly accept it than dismiss it out of hand. While LGCM obviously stands against child abuse of any kind, the views expressed here are very much my own. They are offered [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by Tony Green</p>
<p><em>The following article is by no means uncontroversial and I trust that those taking time to read it will no more blindly accept it than dismiss it out of hand. While LGCM obviously stands against child abuse of any kind, the views expressed here are very much my own. They are offered to help provoke thought, debate and, above all, action. Agreement with everything you read here is somewhat secondary to standing up, speaking out and creating change. The background to my concerns around this issue go back far longer than any of the recent scandals among Roman Catholic priests. It is true however that the Protest the Pope campaign acted as a catalyst for this particular piece of writing&#8230;</em></p>
<p>Unsurprisingly the Papal protests and the outrage about child sex abuse among priests (and the cover-up) have provided new impetus for those of us horrified by those adults who do harm to children. But &#8211; and this is not intended to minimise the crimes within the Roman Catholic Church &#8211; my own research backs up what I have long suspected: abuse by priests is such a minute part of the problem it is, in cold statistical terms, negligible.</p>
<p>Within the UK only 1% of all sexual abuse is at the hands of those in positions of authority and priests make up just a small part of this group (the one percent figure representing those in authority also includes people like social workers, football coaches, doctors and so on). Teachers however are placed in a separate category —as there are so many of them by comparison. Five percent of sexual abuse is at the hands of teachers. So even if the priests made up the entire 1% of the ’those in authority’ category (which they clearly don’t) parents should be five times more wary of sending their children to school than to church. And if parents have sons they should be even more worried. Boys are more than twice as likely to be abused by their teachers than girls.</p>
<p>But the shocking truth is that parents are by far the most likely to sexually abuse their children. I had always believed that the biggest perpetrators of sexual abuse in the child’s home are adults other than biological parents, that step-parents (mainly step-fathers) were the main culprits. That’s to say the biological relationship diminished the likelihood of abuse. Or so I thought. Well ponder this&#8230; Childline (run by the NSPCC) reports the following: 24% of children contacting them report that they are abused by their fathers and 11% by their mothers. Step-fathers are only responsible for 5% and stepmothers 1%. Put simply, this means that statistically children are much safer with the partners of their mum or dad who have come into the family than with their own birth parents.</p>
<p>When you break this down along gender lines it makes even more disturbing reading. The abuse of girls is perpetrated 27% of the time by their fathers and 4% by their mothers.  I imagine that most would have expected this disparity between the proportion of abusive mothers and fathers. But when it comes to boys no such difference exists. Twenty percent of sexually abused boys are violated by their fathers and 20% by their mothers. These are the statistics at the heart of the real cover-up going on in our society. Children are not safe in the home and it’s their biological parents who are the most common culprits. (This not only requires an answer from secularists who blame religion for everything, it somewhat demands an answer from the Christian Institute and others on the Right who seek to deify the family.)</p>
<p>But the shocks don’t stop here, because the biggest single category of perpetrator of child sexual abuse is —other children. Forty percent of children who are sexually abused name other children as their abusers. (Children here includes teenagers under 18, both victims and abusers.)</p>
<p>If that doesn’t give pause for thought nothing will.</p>
<p>I’m going to focus on boys here, not because the abuse of girls is less serious (obviously not), but because the majority of victims of the priests have been boys, (mostly teenagers).  Estimates based on research both here and in the United States suggest that 1 in 6 boys has been sexually abused at some point. This is a shocking figure. My last permanent teaching job was in a boys’ high school. This means that in each of the classes I taught, averaging thirty pupils, 5 boys had been sexually abused.</p>
<p>Most schools are of course co-educational. To keep the maths easy to digest (even if the truth cannot be so easily stomached) let’s imagine a co-educational comprehensive school of around 1200 pupils. This is a fairly typical size. Let’s also assume the pupil population is divided equally between boys and girls (unlikely in fact).</p>
<p>During the course of any one school day 1200 adolescents will pass through the doors of numerous classrooms. Yet every single day 100 of the 600 boys and a greater number of the 600 girls will be carrying the knowledge and trauma that they have been sexually violated at some point; some many times over and many perhaps experiencing the abuse in the present. Many will be dealing with this alone, their shame and fear trapping them in secrecy and collusion with their abusers.</p>
<p>Let’s see how the statistics break down. Remember we’re focusing on the boys only. Based on the calls Childline receive, of the 100 boys who will have been abused, 5 will have been at the hands of their step-father, and 20 by their father. Another 20 will have been violated by their mother. Forty will have been sexually assaulted, or interfered with against their will, by their own peers. Somewhat less than one boy will have been abused by a priest or similar minister of religion.</p>
<p>Organisers of the Protest the Pope march in London on Saturday 18 September estimate that 20,000 people took part. Such estimates are notoriously problematic but we’ll stick with their own figures for now. If we say that 10,000 were men and boys (again to keep things simple), then 1,667 of these have been sexually abused at some point as children. Seventeen of these were abused by those in authority. Eighty three were abused by teachers, 666 by parents (now there’s a number you couldn’t make up) and another 666 by other children/young people. Some on the march were still under 18 and may still be being abused. There was, therefore, in that crowd a lot of pain and anguish and deeply suppressed anger. Most of it had nothing whatsoever to do with the Roman Catholic Church. Based on NSPCC statistics approximately 12 of those taking part in the Protest the Pope march will have been convicted child sex offenders themselves. The number who will have committed sexual crimes against children and who haven’t been found out or convicted will have been considerably higher.</p>
<p>The banner proclaiming ’All religion is child abuse’ that one protester held (I am not suggesting he did so with official approval) is not only deeply offensive to those whose faith has motivated them to help the most vulnerable in society, it is also so far from the truth that it would be laughable if the whole subject wasn’t so serious. There is a deep crisis here that is spread far more widely that the Catholic Church (or any other religious institution).</p>
<p>The priest child sex scandals matter a very great deal. Crimes —especially crimes against children &#8211; perpetrated and then hidden away must be exposed and brought to justice. Jesus of Nazareth only once came close to advocating the death penalty (if you take his words literally) and that was in reference to those who do harm to children (Matthew 18:6, Luke 17:2). If the Roman Catholic Church took the words of Christ seriously they might hesitate less about handing over the abusers to the police. In doing so they would in fact be letting them off lightly.</p>
<p>The focus of my concern though is the children, not the Church. The motivation of many of the protesters seemed to be their hatred for all things religious. Given that clerical involvement in child sex abuse scandals is just the tip of the iceberg, it would make sense on the part of those who have protested most loudly that they follow this through consistently and broaden the scope of their concerns. They can do this by addressing what is going on in our society at large &#8211; where it is those in the family home who are the most likely to sexually abuse children, along with those children’s peers.</p>
<p>Ours is a remarkably non-religious society in terms of personal belief and practice so the notion that a greater secularisation of society would help us is simply wrong. Something is going on at a much wider and deeper level and as I’ve said it is this which is the true scandal. Broadening their focus and working to eradicate child abuse wherever it is found would be a strong indication of the genuineness of the protesters’ anger about such abuse.</p>
<p>I explained to one of the organisers prior to the protest why I wouldn’t be marching. There were a few reasons but I highlighted the fact that I felt there were a mish-mash of grievances all being given equal prominence rather than a focus on any particular issue. Of course if your motive and intention is to simply rubbish all religion (in particular Catholic religion), to read the rap sheet, to declare the Church guilty as charged and then to go about punishing it, then a conglomeration of issues is acceptable. But if this isn’t your motive you need to work out what it is you’re protesting about. It is true that all public protests bring together all sorts with a variety of agendas. But it seemed to me that even among all the official publicity no one quite knew which issue, or cluster of related issues, they ought to address most.</p>
<p>As far as I’m concerned the one issue that urgently needs to be addressed is the child abuse scandal. I say this as a gay man who is deeply distressed at all religion-based homophobia and has no wish to defend the Catholic hierarchy in particular in this respect. I say it as one who cannot bear to think about the suffering of millions in Africa due to the scourge of AIDS which most would agree has been made many times worse by the Catholic Church’s historic position on condoms. So why do I say it? Why is it that child abuse is the one issue I feel should have a light shined on it at this time? It is simply for the reasons I have already given. Child abuse is endemic in our society, and the scapegoating of religion and particularly the Catholic Church, is not only unjust and unfair but it is allowing abusers to go under the radar. We are deflecting our attention away from where it should be. We need to ask what exactly is it that makes so many adults treat like trash the most vulnerable in our society? (And of course we can extend this discussion to the elderly and other groups who have a right to expect to be treated with dignity, love and compassion.)</p>
<p>I believe most of the protesters would in principle agree with me. It was, after all, the priest abuse scandal that led to such a massive groundswell of negative opinion and raw anger against the Church. I don’t wish to suggest that most haven’t been genuine in their shock and disgust, but assuming, as I do, such sincerity it is incumbent upon us all —whatever our sexuality, gender, religion or lack of religious commitment —to seek change and not just people to blame.</p>
<p>Even those most opposed to organised religion ought to see that without this desire for change, the notion that a greater secularisation of society would help us is, at best, an irrelevance.</p>
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